Spanish hideaway

I want to start by writing how incredibly grateful I am that this blog means wonderful travel opportunities for my family and I which allows us to see and experience parts of the world we’ve not visited before, both near and far.

These trips give my kids the gift of new culture, language, food, adventure and hopefully magical childhood memories they will always cherish.

Our latest holiday with James Villas kindly offered us a much craved for hideaway from our hectic lives, in the picturesque Jalon Valley area, 90 minutes from Alicante airport, a quintessentially Spanish terrain, a traditional country villa for the family, full of character.

james villa villa maria swimming pool



rustic villa spain inside james villasfurnished villacommunal area in a villaexploring the villa

Onesie c/o Half-Pint Chic

The villa’s breathtaking views of achingly beautiful misty mountains and vineyards as far as the eye could see (you literally walked through the vineyards to get to the front door), made this rather a special place to while away a week in.


orange grove

The boys were fascinated with the grapes and along with a trip to a local winery, learnt a lot about growing and making wine (and grape juice)!

vine yard spain


winery wine barrels wine red wine white wine
…Being surrounded by the mountains meant that thankfully despite the roaring heat, there was always a breeze, the same when we were by the sea, just twenty minutes away in Calpe and also Moraira, both must-see upmarket towns nearby…

I think the dream might just be a holiday home with acres of vineyards to make our own wine. A lot of vino was enjoyed away!

rustic vineyards

…I loved this worn white washed neighbouring house to the villa also enveloped by perfect rows of vineyards bursting with purple grapes.

views in jalon valley

Peter took so many stunning vineyard shots I have to share them here-

Vineyards by night

night sky in Spain


vineyard by night


But back to the beginning, from the moment we arrived, a sweet serenity seemed to wash over us all, we began to somewhat float around our rustic villa, a far cry from deadlines and nursery runs-a sanctuary if you like, a Spanish retreat, and in a place that reminded us of my late Grandma’s house in Cyprus, with even the same sweet jasmine scent filling the air. Divine.

james villa jalon valleyrustic villavilla in jalon valley

…With high ceilings, an open plan layout and ample room for 6, it could have done with a lick of paint interior wise, and some tlc and renovation, but our time was mostly spent by the pretty pool in the back garden swimming, playing (setting up an XFactor style karaoke event, Dad Greek dancing, Oliver doing his best Simon Cowell impression) and dining al fresco.

james villas alicante

And Papa G certainly lived up to his award winning restaurateur title cooking up a feast of local fresh fish and seasonal fare.

Having produce literally on our doorstep was incredible too from fresh figs the owner of the villa brought round to us and prickly pears that reminded my Dad of Cyprus!

prickly pears



fresh prawns

I’m not sure there’s anything tastier than fine golden rings of calamari eaten outside, I’m yet to find it if there is!

calamari ringsAnother favourite pastime was Dad and I cooking in the kitchen today-the stand out meal was lightly fried free range chicken doused in oregano and fresh lemon, with a mammoth coriander, sweet baby tomato and cucumber salad, picked up at the local grocers, the meat from the most spectacular supermaket I’ve ever set eyes on, five minutes from our villa.


Tasty, simple pleasures that mean so much in your home from home abroad.

free range chickenolives

We often ventured to the local tapas restaurants and even tried a tasty local pizzeria run by French residents round the corner which the kids adored.

restaurant tapas bar

Talk about eating ALL the carbs and ice cream! I know I did!

ice cream


A few more culinary highlights below to get you hungry-

Smoked salmon canapes with garlic butter and black olives


Russian salad I’m desperate to recreate at home




Honey roasted chicken thighs


Salad Nicoise

nicoise salad

…Below we enjoy mixed fish, cuttlefish, paella (of course) followed by mint chocolate chic ice cream.

paellamixed seafoodpaellaice cream

The latter enjoyed on the seafront in our closest coastal town of Calp. Boy do I miss that view.

restaurant in spain

I fell in love with Calp, a metropolis that reminded us of the South of France (our go-to destination with my folks since kids) with it’s glossy and gorgeous luxe stores, pristine side walks and clear, warm sea. A must-visit if you’re ever in these parts.


We adored Moraira too, the boys spent hours at a central funfair and the surrounding are like something from a Bond movie!

fair diggers cars funfair

..I’m also proud to announce I pushed myself out of my comfort zone while we visited the town, picking up a rental car there which I drove around for the whole holiday as neither my folks nor husband fancied driving on the right side of the road.

Navigating dual carriageways, roundabouts, side streets and main roads (so you know, DRIVING), I was crazily-scared to start, but soon got used and even enjoyed my Spanish driving adventure and felt happy I felt the fear but did it anyway. Whoop!

I’m sure all the ‘you can do it’ style images on Pinterest I’ve been seeing recently, helped spur me on. The power of social media is real people 😉

I just wish I’d got a snap of me behind the wheel but I caught these two there!


It must be said I preferred scooting us round our little village of Jalon the most, and we quickly got used to a slower pace of life there, wandering the streets, playing in the children’s playground in the centre and dressing up for dinner in the square-

grandad and grandson



H&M dress

Beloved sheer panelled dress by H&M a few years ago, shades Dolce & Gabbana, red earrings c/o Yosa, leather block heels by Next, bag is Osprey, Xander’s outfit c/o me&i, shoes c/o Bobux. 

Oh and this photo makes me laugh!


And Jalon by night was certainly a beauty to behold-

No more so on date night!

Going Grecian style-wise with a dress bought from Calp for the child-free evening! #gettingbacktomyroots.

Thanks Mum and Dad for babysitting!

Date styleCalpspanish town historical buildingsCalp at night

We kept spotting vintage cars too, look at these beauties

vintage carcar

The boys were pretty well behaved throughout the holiday, and although they were already close before, they seemed to bond even more during this time away, and almost grew before our eyes, maturing in the sun. I suppose travel can do that to kids somehow, or perhaps it merely provides a window for parents to fully appreciate the growth their kids have made thus far.

A time to reflect, to appreciate life more.

cute beautiful boy sweet portrait

More portraits…

boyboy with toychildboy

Swimwear c/o Sunuva.

The boys seemed to really relish one another’s company too, swimming, drawing, devising games together, watching films, making dens under restaurant tables and burying one another’s legs in sand by the sea. After all their adventures, they fell fast asleep next to one another, holding hands…

watching a filmwatching TVkids

Boys outfits-Xander c/o me&i, Oliver’s shorts c/o Vertbaudet, top c/o St Berts, both shoes c/o Bobux.


Some of my most cherished photos are of the boys playing ‘Jurassic Park’ with these walking, talking dinosaurs we bought from the Saturday market in Jalon, we often had to retrieve them from their beds by night!

childrentoy dinosaurtoy dinosaur toy dinosaurThe bustling market was was fun excursion out, the boys are still wearing their friendship bracelets to this day!


hats friendship bracelets

Oh and before I forget, one of my own highlights had to be regular night swims when the kids slept-simple ‘me time’, the outside lights on, still 33 degrees out- lap after lap, fully switching off.

villa by night jalon valley james villasview at night

And my boys seemed to have taken after me when it came to the water-
kids swimming

swimming pool

water baby

loungingpool villa

…Alexander, my little fish, in particular never wanted to leave the pool or beach- we would head to the sea quite late in the day, missing the peak midday hours, and I adored our sweet little chats as we swam together, the intense, important discussions mostly revolving around what seaweed was made of and whether a lion could kill a shark (!)

Alexander made me laugh when I asked if he preferred the sea or the pool, to which he replied, ‘Erm, the sea (pause) and the pool, and the river’. We live near a river that meets in what we call ‘the beach’ near our home in the Yorkshire countryside so I think that’s where the river reference comes from.


Holding him up as he dislikes arm bands, his little legs kicking so he could swim, are some of my happiest memories, as is the most thoughtful gift I’ve ever received from my eldest son Oliver, 5, who handed me a ice lolly stick with the words ‘Mummy Pretty’ carefully written by him in felt tip pen.


Oliver had overheard me complaining to his Dad, of a bloated tummy and wanted to make me feel better.

It was an important reminder that despite me often being mindful of not discussing body image negatively, I must be more careful of what I say, and also be kinder to myself as well.

…Something that served to make me feel more confident was having a swimwear shoot for designer swim and resortwear label heidi klein.

Seeing the Jamaica pictures from the first shoot made me realise how far I’d come in confidence since having my kids, a renewed respect for my body that grew and nourished my kids, and I really hope you like these shoots as well.

heidi klein swimwear

The villa certainly proved the perfect backdrop with its cornflower blue exterior, picturesque vineyards and of course magnificent pool.


Spanish style

Dress c/o Joe Browns, clutch Yosa.


Ideal too, for a shoot with beautiful beachwear brand BeachHeart Swimwear, founded by my model friend Anna Bailey. Here I wear her ‘Elsa’ Kaftan.

I love rocking holiday style and although I will be sharing it in more detail over on my style blog Mummy’s Got Style, one of my most favourite outfits was for the unforgettable fiesta for The Virgin Mary.




With street food, a live band and cocktails on every corner, it was quite the experience. Jasmine blossom filled the air, church bells merged with jazz music, kids and small dogs played in the town square, as locals gathered in Jalon to come together and celebrate. 


Drop earrings c/o Yosa, sheer top c/o La Redoute, dress c/o me&i, bag Nova Harley whom I’m an ambassador for.

…Oh Espana, we love you so much, we wrote your name in the sky!

Such a happy sun-filled week away with all the people I love most, thank you James Villas for all the memories.

Here’s a short film we made that captures some of these. Enjoy!



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57 Responses

  1. Su {Ethan & Evelyn}

    Wow! Such an amazing place! I other half speaks a little Spanish. It would be so love if we could take the kids there too. I like that you have included the whole aspect of the villa; the place you have stayed at, the culture, the food, the night life long exposure, and your family experience of the place. What an amazing holiday! Envious much! haha 😉 xx #brilliantblogposts

  2. Alison

    Some absolutely stunning photos. The food looks amazing. SO lovely that your boys’ relationship is developing even further. #brilliantblogposts

  3. Wave to Mummy

    What can I say other than that _absolutely fricking fabulous_! 🙂 Gorgeous location, gorgeous house, and gorgeous food 🙂 Lovely to see you adventure across the globe and to dream of going to such beautiful places myself too sometime (hopefully soon 😀 )

  4. Ali West

    What stunning pictures & it sounds like the perfect place too 🙂 I love the ice lolly stick, something my little girl would do & I’d treasure forever!

  5. Sara | mumturnedmom

    Another fabulous holiday, you lucky thing. It just looks amazing and those photos, stunning. It sounds like the perfect, calm, break for you all and after all the amazing things you’ve been up to recently, just what you needed. For once, I’m not as jealous of the beaches though, having just spent a few days in Cape Cod 🙂

  6. Laura Evelyn Bee

    Vicki you look gorgeous as always and your post really captures the family memories of your holiday. The food looks AMAZING!! I love the photo’s of the vineyard at night too, it looks magical! x

  7. The Breastest News

    Gorgeous photos and the Villa looks amazing!! We’re always looking for Villas to go to when we go abroad. With my son being autistic it’s easier if we have a house to go to so he can run around and do his own thing. He doesn’t manage well in a hotel room for 7 days.

  8. Jess Paterson

    Really loved this post, hon, have been off a while so was nice to get back in the Honest way and catch up on Papa G’s antics! He rocks the panama, dahhling. I love your photo of Calp – it looks really 70s and Bond-esque. You look fab in your holidaywear, particularly like the pic of the Joe Browns dress against that fabulous door. Looks like a fab holiday, James Villas are a favourite with us too. xxx

    • honestmum

      Thanks darling, you made me laugh re Papa G, glad you’ve got to catch up with his adventures! Calp is beautiful, truly cinematic! JV are wonderful aren’t they x

  9. Ebabee

    What a beautiful place and what incredibly STUNNING photos. All of them. Wow, just wow. I also love the grecian dress on you. xx

  10. Becky, Cuddle Fairy

    Oh what a spectacular villa & the scenery around it is just stunning. It looks like the perfect place to unwind & get away from everything. Your video is lovely too – I’d love to be right near vineyards & fresh figs, what a treat! Great to have you back though 🙂 #brilliantblogposts x

  11. mummy tries

    What an absolutely lush post to read. The villa well, just OMGWOW!!! Stunning in every way, and it sounds like you properly switched off and had a relaxing break darling. Gorgeous photos of the kiddos and the food pics are fab too. Not even going to pretend I’m anything but WELL JELL. Mwah xxxxxxx

    • honestmum

      Heeh thanks babe, we should sort a girlie getaway together one time, imagine the fun! It was the perfect place and window in the summer to rest xx

  12. Elizabeth (Wander Mum)

    What a beautiful location and view! Looks like a fabulous holiday – love the pics. Well done for fighting the fear and hiring a car. Inspiring. Right hand side driving isn’t too bad when you get the hang of it, is it? – I always think it will be worse than it is. #brilliantblogposts

  13. Rob

    What a wonderful place and a beautiful looking villa to stay with your family. #brilliantblogposts

  14. Angela at Daysinbed

    This looks like a fantastic holiday. I really hope to take my family on a dream holiday one day and i’m sure with hard work and perseverance my blog will provide a great opportunity like this! The whole place looks dreamy and it’s great that you got to have some well deserved time out with the family before your hectic schedule in the coming weeks. The food looked fab and the olives! yummy! Thanks for sharing! Oh and I love the kaftan too! it;s beautiful! –

    Angela at

    • honestmum

      Thanks so much Angela, I know it will. The next few weeks ahead are very exciting so this was the perfect relaxing break before the busyness begins! x

  15. Tracey Abrahams

    The villa looks absolutely wonderful, and more sonthe pool. You all look like you had an awesome time. #brilliantblogposts
    P.s you look gorgeous in that black dress

  16. Random Musings

    Looks gorgeous. The villa looks modern yet comfortable. Love the idea of staying in a vineyard. Love the outfit you had on for your date night 🙂 Thanks for hosting #brilliantblogposts

  17. Mim

    Oh my word what a wonderful villa – it’s so picturesque – what an absolute treat! And move over Greek Vicki, you actually look very Spanish yourself in these beautiful pics! I bet the boys had such a wonderful time and you can finally forget about ‘passportgate’ 🙂 Mim x #brilliantblogposts


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