Last Thursday was a delicious whirlwind of a day in London-and a 7 hour round trip too, (one of the reasons we’re officially moving back down South to the outskirts of London, from Yorkshire later this year) but one that was worthwhile, nonetheless as it was spent having delicious fun with amazeballs people.

Now, look, I get it, I know my life looks incredibly charmed and in many ways it is: I work hard and play hard (sometimes), but I value everything and everyone in my world, and life can be incredibly tough-going too. Please don’t assume a slice of my life on social in the whole story. Last year was a mix of incredible work highs and devastating personal lows with a sick relative which meant many a sad time too. Nothing can be fun 24/7, that’s just not life.

I will say this though, the experiences my family and I have thanks to my job, and the people I’ve met on this journey, are hugely appreciated and treasured.

Thursday was filled with lots of those guys. And thank goodness too. I spent the day before, Wednesday pretty upset for various reasons I won’t bore you with, so my trip came just at the right time as I craved some happy-making escapist fun with fabulous friends.

It was a beautiful babe of a day filled with cake, champs and an awards ceremony thrown by Pinterest no less which I was a finalist at with my Dad’s recipe for Salmon Ravioli from his restaurant Giorgio’s.

First up, my pal Jason Collier, hairstylist to the stars and creative director of the Mathew Curtis salon at The Rosewood, London, transformed my locks for the day, dying and styling my long locks to perfection. JC created a twirly mid bun for me and a sweeping fringe I adoredwhilst my girl, Lela London had a bouncy blow dry thanks to Shanola, by my side.

Jason Collier, hairstylist to the stars and creative director of the Mathew Curtis salon at The Rosewood, London

Lela London has her hair styled

Now, Jason is THE man when it comes to all things ‘amazing hair’ as he styles A-listers day to day, and has become a great friend to me over the past year, since we met.

Speaking of mates I collaborate with, and I know this sounds all cliched and ‘yeah right’ but my manager Neil is one of my best buds. I feel lucky to have found my tribe in him and my gang you see here. I trust Neil implicitly (he’s my work husband) and always has my back. Most importantly, he makes my work life fun and when you work as hard as we do, you need to enjoy it.

Neil met up with me at the Pinterest awards to celebrate my nom and afterwards, and somewhat, begrudgingly, joined me for Nandos but more of that later #chickencliffhanger 😉

..So, after Jason made me feel a million dollars, I headed to the Royal Garden Hotel aka my second home #luckygirl (I’m their resident blogger, don’t you know) to meet with multi-million best selling author Adele Parks. Adele and I have followed each other on twitter since I set up my account there (that long) and we’ve even chatted on the phone before, but this was the first time we’ve actually met IRL. We instantly clicked as I knew we would, and it was a real joy hanging out over the most exquisite champagne afternoon tea courtesy of the hotel.

Royal Garden Hotel in Kensington London

Vicki Psarias and Adele Parks at The Royal Garden Hotel

Adele does the honours!

multi-million best selling author Adele Parks

Dreamy raspberry lemon slice, coconut and chilli pineapple shot, tiramisu’ cupcake and apple crumble tart. Wowsas.

raspberry lemon slice, coconut and chilli pineapple shot, tiramisu’ cupcake and apple crumble tart!

Afternoon Tea at The Royal Garden Hotel

Tea for two!

loose tea

Followed by the prettiest selection of sandwiches bursting with ham, smoked salmon, egg and cress and hummus…

Sandwiches for afternoon tea at Royal Garden Hotel in Kensington

And my favourite, fluffy scones with plum and raspberry jam and cream.

Scones for afternoon tea

Afternoon tea in London

Adele kindly shared her wisdom with me over afternoon tea, encouraging me to write 500 words a day to meet my 15,000 word monthly deadline rather than leaving it all to one long sprint before my deadline.  Looking at the pretty cakes, she advised,  ‘Divide the book into little cake sized bites so it doesn’t overwhelm you’. Well, yes to that thank you very much. In fact just knowing I only have to commit to 500 words a day, encouraged me to get a whopping 6000 down on Wednesday alone. Thanks Adele.

I can’t wait to include her experience of being a mumboss in my own book too, what an honour it will be to feature her. We actually share the same umbrella publisher in Hachette, Adele is with Headline in Fiction and I’m with Piatkus/Little Brown in Non-Fiction. Adele said those who keep pushing, end up crossing paths: very true.

We literally could have chatted all day (she warned me that her son eats constantly so I encouraged her to take a doggy bag of the cakes we couldn’t finish for him) and next time, we’re planning an even longer catch-up.

I’m excited to read her latest novel, The Stranger in My Home, the only one from her immense collection I’ve not read yet which is just out. Adele’s novels hold a special place in my heart as I started reading them whilst pregnant with my first son, Oliver. Returning to her ‘voice’ is like coming home to me.

Warm, beautiful, relatable, funny and smart, just like her body of work, it’s no wonder Adele is such an incredible success.

I left feeling full, a little tipsy from the bubbles and utterly inspired.

Marching slash swaying to the Pinterest Awards after being stuck in traffic, Lela and I snapped (mostly in front of this incredible edible donut display and drank some more. Meeting up with Neil, we caught up with the Pinterest UK team and PRs we bumped into, and the highlight of the night for me, was hanging out with one of my closest blogging pals, Nomita of the achingly beautiful Your DIY Family blog.

donut display

Big thanks to Nomita for being my personal paparazzo and grabbing this shot of me below.  Believe me I made her take tonnes and she was incredibly patient. I’m just sad after all my faffing, we didn’t get a shot of us together.

Honest Mum at the best of Pinterest Awards

Lela London at The Best of Pinterest Awards

Honest Mum and Lela London with manager Neil from Insanity at Pinterest Awards

It was also lovely to bump into Tilly from Precis (who kindly gifted me this statement print dress along with lots of others I’ll be showcasing on the blog soon) as we caught up on all things motherhood and mumboss living.

Honest Mum with friend

Lela London

Instagrammer Alison, a close mate of Lela’s joined in the fun, later on too.

Long time girl crush, Lauren Laverne did the honours of the night announcing the well deserved winners which included The Helmsely Sisters, My Fussy Eater etc etc and whilst I didn’t win the Go-To-Recipe category with my Dad’s Salmon Ravioli, The Londoner rightly did, it was an absolute honour to be nominated, and I had a complete blast.

After all that gourmet food, it was off to Nando’s we went (ha) with Lela’s first introduction to this chicken haven. After initial trepidation, she shared my dish of half a chicken, coleslaw and corn, and gave it the thumbs up.

With minutes to spare and pretty tipsy by now, I boarded the train back to Leeds, no doubt annoying fellow passengers as I chatted to them as they tapped away at their laptops (sorry, and still cringing people, if it’s any consolation), making to my front door Cinderella style by midnight.

I suffered from quite the hangover the following day so popped my Out of Office email setting on and snuggled up with my little one on the sofa for a movie marathon, and more chicken in the form of a roast I somehow (!) managed to cook for us.

Told you London was a whirlwind.

Not sure I’d have life any other way though.

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53 Responses

  1. mums' army

    Life can sometimes be hard and throw you a curve ball every now and then, so thats why when you get the chance to let your hair down and enjoy yourself it is so important to take it. Looks like you had a lovely time with some lovely food and friends. Keep smiling and spreading the love xx #brillblogposts

  2. Laura

    This looks like a truly amazing night out, and the sandwiches.. Wow! And the scones… Wow! And those cakes… Wow!!!!!!!
    I’m not at all jealous!

  3. Yvadney @ Mums That Slay

    Ooh what a day?! I love afternoon tea, it’s my favourite meal of the day, I suppose because it’s such a treat. The pinterest party sounds like it was pretty fab, as was your dress. Yvadney x #BrillBlogPosts

  4. stacey oakes

    Looks like you had a fab day. The afternoon tea looked delicious. I so need to stop at Tesco’s and buy some scones now!! #BrilliantBlogPosts

  5. New Mummy Blog

    I just said on your Brilliant Blog Posts page, that it sounded like a whirlwind week, it is off the scale now! What a busy amazing sounding day, well done on your nomination. I’ve not heard of Adele’s books before, so I’m off to have a google now x

  6. Caroline

    Wow, it really was a whirlwind Vicki. It looked like a really exciting day, especially afternoon tea with Adele Parks – how amazing. Congratulations on your nomination too, that’s fantastic! .#brilliantblogposts

  7. Chloee

    Hi, Love the way the selection of teas were presented, oh and those cakes and scones look soo delicious. You’ve reminded me that I need to book another afternoon tea 😉 Chloe, #BrilliantBlogPosts

  8. Rebecca

    This sounds like a great day! #chickencliffhanger… love it!I had an epic afternoon tea in a day retreat spa last weekend after a heavy night out for my hen do… love an afternoon tea! And I have no idea how my other half always manages to cook a roast dinner with a horrendous hangover either? Well done on the nomination… bet it was worth it just to have such a fabulous day <3 #brilliantblogposts

  9. your DIY family

    Thanks for the mention and the utterly kind words about my blog. It was lovely seeing you as always. Your day sounds ah-mazing! That tea at the Royal Garden Hotel looks scrumptious – must check it out one of these days xxx

  10. Eb Gargano /

    Wow – that sounds like an amazing day? Are you sure it was just a day – you seem to have crammed a few days worth of stuff in there!! And congrats on being a finalist at the Pinterest Awards – that is amazing!! And that wall of donuts – Oh. My. Goodness. How did you resist snaffling one?!? Eb x

  11. Becca Farrelly

    Sounds amazing! I love the donut display! Its really nice to go to events like that and meet people you have admired for so long! Looking forward to the Vlog 🙂


  12. Gary

    What a fantastic day – much more glamorous than my day to day activities! You’re so right though we don’t always know the tough times people go through #brilliantblogposts

  13. Twin Pickle

    Your life seems to get more glamorous by the day! Love seeing all your days/nights out, although it is making me a little envious! #brilliantblogposts

  14. jodie filogomo

    What an honor just to be nominated—-how fabulous, Vicki!!
    And who cares who wins, as long as you get to go, have fun & hobnob!!


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